My First Time…

I am not talking about my “first time”. I am talking about my first “saved-Christian” relationship, which really means the first relationship I had after I was saved. It definitely wasn’t a Christian relationship, but just two Christians in a relationship. You get what I’m saying? I was enjoying life, seeking after God hard, I was hungry and thirsty to get to know Jesus and to build this relationship with Him. I was feeling brand new and a whole new person. It was only a little over a year that I had been in my walk with God when I…

Who I Am Now…

My name is Justine, and I am now 30 years old. I started this blog about two years ago to write down all my dating adventures and experiences of trying to find love. I didn’t know I would find true love through Jesus Christ during this journey. It was so unexpected as they say “when you least expect it”, and THANK YOU, GOD! My life has completely changed, and it has been a sweet struggle to learn who I am in Christ and to learn how to date differently than my way, but instead God’s way. The journey has not…

Husband Fast Day 14

Day 14: Ordered Steps: Pray that you and your future husband would always be in full surrender to the Lord, allowing Him to order your steps. Pray that you wouldn’t try to jump ahead of His plans. Trust and believe God prepares you for the desires of your heart! Scriptures: Proverbs 16:9, Isaiah 64:8, Psalm 37:23-24   Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Psalm 37:4   Father God, I just want to thank you for connecting me with a group of women during this fast and for all the ladies that have shared.…

Husband Fast Day 13

Day 13: Self-value and worth: Pray that you’ll always see yourself through the same lens Jesus does towards you. Pray that you will agree with every truth He has spoken over you and how He’s created you to be. Scriptures: Mark 4:20, 1 Peter 3:3-4, Genesis 1:26, Psalm 139:14   You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way. -Song of Solomon 4:7   Father God, thank you for creating me exactly the way that I am. I was made in the image and likeness of You, Father God. I pray that I will always see myself through the…

Husband Fast Day 12

Day 12: Sexual Purity: Pray that God would be honored in every part of your future relationship (courtship and marriage) and that the Lord would reveal to you personally His purpose for sex. Pray that if there are any struggles now or in the future with sexism purity that Jesus would uproot them and fill you with His love and grace. Scriptures: Galatians 5:16-17, Matthew 5:8, 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8   God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭4:3‬   Ok y’all! Let me get real here! SEX!!! Sex feels good…

Husband Fast Day 11

Day 11: Communication: Pray for healthy, honest and open communication between you and your future husband. Pray that needs and frustrations would be brought to light when they are still small and never used out of spite. Scriptures: Proverbs 19:11, Proverbs 17:27   I used to be the worst communicator in my past relationships. I used to avoid conflict and keep things inside and never really solving anything. I became resentful, angry, and would just run away from situations or end relationships all together because I wouldn’t speak up about my needs or frustrations. I’ve definitely learned that COMMUNICATION is…

Husband Fast Day 10

Day 10: Generosity: Pray for generosity to be the norm in your future marriage. Whether it be financially, with time, resources or going the extra mile with your spouse as well as those around you. Pray that generosity would come from a heart of compassion and never self-seeking. Scriptures: Luke 16:13, Luke 12:31-34, Proverbs 3:9   You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. For God loves a person who gives cheerfully. 2 Corinthians 9:7     Thank you, Father God, for already giving me a heart of…

Husband Fast Day 9

Day 9: Spiritual Legacy: Pray for a shift in any generational curses in your family to be turned into generational blessings! Pray for the spiritual legacy you’d like to leave for the next generations to come. Scriptures: Galatians 6:6-10, Deuteronomy 30:19-20   What I am saying, dear brothers and sisters, is that our physical bodies cannot inherit the Kingdom of God. These dying bodies cannot inherit what will last forever. 1 Corinthians 15:50     Thank you, Father God, for blessing me with the family I have and grew up with and even though we are far from perfect, my…