No relationship is perfect, and I should know this. Everyone around me who’s in a relationship are in relationships that aren’t perfect. But I believe otherwise that I could have a perfect relationship. I need to stop because having unrealistic expectations causes unhappiness from my own doings. All I can say is work, work, work, work! Relationships are work. And no one teaches you the ways of a relationship because each person is different. One thing could work from a past relationship, and the same thing wouldn’t work in another relationship. So I’m constantly learning and learning what works in this relationship. This is why some people give up, or rather be single. It’s not as easy as it seems. And if it was, everyone would be doing it. My mind has envisioned a perfect relationship through fairytale movies and romantic novels. Can I have everything? It’s possible. But it’s not always going to be perfect. It’s not always going to be happy times all the time. People are human and not perfect, so relationships aren’t perfect.
We had our first fight. Of course it was something stupid. Something that I expected that was not fulfilled, so I was upset. I think that we were both wrong. I didn’t have to make a big deal out of it, but I think he should have just done it to make me happy. Relationships are full-time jobs, so you either work for it or you quit. Your choice. I choose to work.