Remember when we used to love freely? Uninhibited: expressing one’s feelings or thoughts unselfconsciously and without restraint. Remember your first love? You were so in love with the person, nothing else mattered, time didn’t matter, responsibilities left for another day, emotions were up and down, but mostly high — feelings you’ve never felt before for someone. It was freeing to love, but that changes when you experience more pain, more relationships, more wasted time. We start holding back, thinking things through and start questioning the other person’s intentions. We’ve lost how to be spontaneously in love.